33 days ago

The First Weeks with an Adopted Dog or Kitten: Settling In Without Stress

Many adopters are surprised that the animal is not "the one we saw". The reason is simple – settling in takes time. Experienced volunteers talk about the 3-3-3 rule.

First 3 days: stress and fear

The animal is in an unfamiliar place and may hide, refuse food, bark or purr nervously. Do not push it. Provide calm, water and food and let it observe.

First 3 weeks: getting to know each other

It starts to relax and shows its character, and unwanted behaviours may appear – chewing, scratching, going in the wrong place. Introduce a routine for feeding, walks and play. Reward good behaviour with praise and treats.

First 3 months: bonding

The animal now knows it is home. Your bond deepens and its behaviour becomes more predictable. This is a good time for training and socialisation.

Practical tips

Keep a steady daily routine – meals, walks, sleep
Teach a dog to stay alone gradually – minutes, not hours
For cats, provide high places and hiding spots
For problem behaviour, ask a vet or a dog trainer / animal behaviourist

When things are not going well

Many problems pass with patience and consistency. If you feel overwhelmed, ask the owner or the shelter you adopted from – the people who looked after the animal often give the most useful advice.